“Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.” – Jane Austen
When I woke up this morning, I felt quite off. I knew I would. This was supposed to be my wedding day that was called off months ago. I plopped a pillow over my head to block out the obstinate sunlight, but knew I had to get up. My slight hangover from a night of perhaps too much partying didn’t help my dour mood. :/
I don’t regret the decision that was made to call everything off, but my thoughts kept retreating to a parallel dimension where we went along with everything, and how I imagined I would be feeling about it all. It was all a bit too surreal to deal with before my morning coffee. :/
The only reason I didn’t sleep in past 2 was that I had a friend visiting from out of town. I reluctantly dragged myself out of bed, took a shower, and threw on today’s piece.
This is a fairly dated dress, folks. But look on the bright side…it actually fits me quite well! All it needs is a few tweaks to take it into this century. :)
First off, these dudes had to get outta there!
I took some of the awkward length away from the sleeves.
Enthused by my choppage, I continued on to the skirt!
Then, I pinned all of my raw edges under twice.
Of course, everything had to be stitched down, too!
I pressed everything, and was all done! :)
I was so happy to see Gary, one of my closest friends of 10 years from my college theatre days. :) We talked, hung out, and drank a good bit. A very good bit.
Much sushi was consumed as well. :)
Gary even helped me walk Pongo, the sweet pup I’m watching for the weekend. :)
One of the biggest things about being single that has irked me is my own inability to fix anything. As some of you guys know, my washing machine just doesn’t get hot water, which means no dyeing of clothing. :(
That was until today! :) He also fixed a few other things around the house that had been driving me a bit batty. Hooray for guys who can do guy stuff! :) So, look forward to seeing lots of dyeing in my future refashions, as I’ve been suffering from withdrawal pangs!
So…I made it through a day I had been dreading for quite a while…with a little help from my friends! :)
I have to say, I’m extremely lucky to have all of the wonderful friends that I do. These past few months could have been completely miserable if I didn’t have such an amazing support system. :) I’m honored and truly humbled by all of you. I don’t think I say this enough, so Thank You.